LIX MONTHLY UPDATE

April 2006

THANK YOU!

NEWS FLASH!!


Service Before You Sell

Questions in a Hat

Dinner/Speaker Meeting

Social Networking

Linkages

 
 
 
 

 

 

 

 

Proud Chicks Dance Party 2

Coffee Networking Meeting

A Taste For Life

Lesbian and Gay Expo

Butch/Femme Workshop

Swirl & Twirl

Lesbian Couples Group

 

 Hi LIX Members,

First of all, we'd like to thank all the women who participated in our discussion about LIX at the last coffee meeting. The feedback that you gave us and the ideas that you shared will help LIX continue to develop into a strong business, social and educational network that meets the needs of lesbians in the Ottawa area. What follows is a 'Coles Notes' for those of you who missed the meeting.

However, the best news is that as a result of our discussion, Wendy explored the possibility of LIX having a web site and has secured us space and a domain name! We now own 'girlswanttoknow.com'.....Yippeeee! The LIX web site is coming soon! We will start simple (on-line version of the newsletter, archives of old newsletters, etc.) and look towards building links to web sites and advertising for LIX member businesses down the road. Wendy (thank you delightful, fabulous...not to mention gorgeous, woman!) has generously donated her web talents to LIX.

NEWS FLASH!!! I JUST GOT CONFIRMATION THAT LIBBY DAVIES, OUT AND PROUD LESBIAN MEMBER OF PARLIAMENT FOR VANCOUVER EAST WILL BE THE GUEST SPEAKER AT OUR FIRST DINNER/SPEAKER MEETING! DETAILS TO FOLLOW IN THE NEXT FEW WEEKS!


Now back to your feedback from our discussion meeting:

a. Things you like about the coffee meetings: the location at Bridgehead; the friendly atmosphere; the socializing; the fact that there are new faces at each meeting; the opportunity to get exposure for, and to find out about, lesbian businesses; and the opportunity to find out what's going on in the LGBT community.

b. Ideas you had for the coffee meetings/other events you're interested in:

  1. "Service before you sell" - where women share tips & ideas with the group. As a follow-up to this great idea, we will be asking members who are doing a Five Minute Infomercial if they can give three free 'tips' as part of their presentation.

  2. "Questions in a hat" - where we collect questions from you, we toss them all in a hat, and then we spend some time at the coffee meetings drawing questions and seeing if there are women in the room who can answer them. Eg. Is it better to lease a car or buy? How do I beat a parking ticket? How do I find the therapist who's right for me? So send me your questions and/or bring them to the next coffee meeting so we can get started.

  3. Dinner/Speaker Meeting - we are checking out a venue and guest speaker for the first of our 'cheap and cheerful' dinner meetings. We're looking at a May or June date. If any of you know of restaurant/cafe owners who would be interested in holding a small private function for us (or places that have a separate room from the main part of the restaurant) please contact Marie at info@girlswantoknow.com.

  4. Social Networking - where women who want to organize a specific event or interest group (like a book club, a hiking group, a singles' dinner, a movie night, etc.) put together a little blurb including a description and contact information and we print it in the newsletter and announce it at the coffee meetings. If there's an activity or an interest group that you'd like to organize, please contact Marie at info@girlswanttoknow.com

  5. Linking with other women's groups - where we connect with other groups as well as advertising their events. We plan to invite members of other groups to come and talk at future coffee meetings. If you know of a group that may be interested, let us know.

c. Increasing our membership: our membership is increasing all on its own and quickly! Twenty women came out to the March coffee meeting and our email distribution list has grown from about a dozen people in December to 59 women today. Nonetheless you gave us some great ideas for increasing LIX membership. Wendy, our newsletter beautification gal, is going to create a handbill that we can use at events like the Lesbian & Gay Expo and our Proud Chicks Dance Party. Kerry got us a FREE ad in CapXtra this month. We ask each of you to consider asking ONE friend to join LIX. We are also going to set aside a table at the Proud Chicks Dance Party where we can display LIX newsletters and handbills and where you are invited to display your business cards/flyers/posters/pamphlets.

d. What if we outgrow Bridgehead? That would be fabulous! A number of suggestions were made at the meeting and we followed up on them. Here are the results: The Roasted Cherry is no longer under the same management and it seems to have morphed into a Lebanese (no not lesbian, unfortunately) restaurant. The boardroom is available at Chapters but it's too small for us. So for now, we're going to stay put...there's still a wee bit more room in our current space.

e. What about creating a business directory? None of us on the steering committee have the interest or the time to work on a business directory especially when Index is available already in the community as well as the Galleria section of Capital Xtra. If any of you want to take on this project, let us know.

So thanks again LIX members! Our group is growing stronger as a result of your s
upport and feedback. LIX belongs to all of us...and we all deserve congratulations!

 

Upcoming Events of Interest

1. LIX presents Proud Chicks Dance Party 2!!!! Lakeside Gardens is reserved for Friday, August 25th from 9:00 - 1:00 for our second annual fabulous lesbian dance to celebrate PRIDE! This year we are giving the proceeds to Women's Voices and making a donation to the Pride Committee. We'll let you know as soon as tickets are available...last year's dance sold out! Kerry and her 'bar girls' are set to serve! So now we're accepting volunteers for the door, set up, and clean up. If you volunteer at the dance, your admission is FREE! So if you're available to do a shift, contact Marie at info@girlswanttoknow.com.

2. Our next Coffee Networking Meeting will be held at Bridgehead, 1277 Wellington Street (at Caroline) on Tuesday, April 4th from 7:00 - 9:00. Leanne has reserved one of the Five Minute Infomercial spots (and she's agreed to give you 3 free tips). There's another spot available...if anyone wants to grab the opportunity to showcase their business, please contact Marie at info@girlswanttoknow.com.

3. Taste for Life...Wednesday, April 26th. This is a fundraiser for Bruce House...25% of what you spend goes to Bruce House. Check the latest issue of Capital Xtra (available as of March 23rd) for a list of the 38 restaurants who are participating this year. A number of women from LIX will be going to Savana Cafe at 431 Gilmour Street so if you want to help make this a fun LIX event, book your tables now (233-9159).

4. This year's Lesbian and Gay Expo takes place on Saturday, April 22nd from 10:00 - 4:00 at the Jack Purcell Community Centre. Last year there were over 1200 visitors and close to 60 exhibitors. This is a great opportunity to showcase your business and/or to check out LGBTTTQ businesses and community services in the city. If you're interested in being an exhibitor, call Kerry at 237-7133. A number of LIX members have reserved tables so, if you're not exhibiting, come out and visit us!

5. The Butch/Femme Workshop: 'Unravelling the Myths, Celebrating the Erotic' is back by popular demand. Our own LIX Chick, Marie Robertson, will be facilitating her Butch/Femme workshop at Venus Envy on Wednesday, April 19th from 7:30 - 10:00 p.m. The workshop fee is $25. Call Venus Envy at 789-4646 to reserve your spot. This exciting and fun workshop was presented twice last year and sold out both times! You don't need to identify as butch or femme to attend. For more information, please contact Marie at info@girlswanttoknow.com.

6. Swirl & Twirl. This is a fundraiser for Pink Triangle Services, Harmony House and Women's Voices. It takes place on Thursday, June 1st at City Hall. Tickets are $25 and cover the cost of your wine and hors d'oeuvres. Tickets will be available at After Stonewall, mother tongue books, Wilde's and Venus Envy closer to the time of the event.

7. Lesbian Couples Group. The dates have been changed to April 5th - May 10th so there's still time to register for this group. It's a joint presentation of the Centretown Community Health Centre (CCHC) and the Sandy Hill Community Centre (SHCC). Wednesday evenings. Free of charge. The group is being held at SHCC at 221 Nelson Street (corner of Rideau). Pre-registration and an interview are required. Please call one of the facilitators for information and/or pre-registration: Andrea Madan at 233-4443 X2193 or Carol McMurdo-Paton at 789-6309 X2116.


As always, we encourage you to send us news of events and/or workshops that you are involved in so we can add the information to our Upcoming Events of Interest section of this monthly news update. We need to know the who's, what's, where's as well as cost, where tickets are available, if pre-registration is required, and if it's a fundraiser, what organization you're raising funds for. If the organization has a web site, that web address would be helpful.

So...there you go! For more information about the LIX network, feel free to call Kerry at 237-7133 or contact Marie at info@girlswanttoknow.com. You can also send us an email or chat with one of the four of us (Kerry, Lucy, Wendy or Marie) at a coffee meeting. See you on April 4th!

Cheers,
Marie Robertson
for the LIX Steering Committee

   
 
     

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